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brought it for you to sit and recline on." Allah's Apostle said, "The makers of these pictures will be punished on the Day of Resurrection, and it will be said to them, 'Give life to what you have created (i.e., these pictures). " The Prophet added, "The Angels of (Mercy) do not enter a house in which there are pictures (of animate objects)."Bukari 7.494B Narrated by Abu 'Amir  he heard the Prophet saying, "From among my followers there will be some people who will consider illegal sexual intercourse, the wearing of silk, the drinking of alcoholic drinks and the use of musical instruments, as lawful. And there will be some people who will stay near the side of a mountain and in the evening their shepherd will come to them with their sheep and ask them for something, but they will say to him, 'Return to us tomorrow.' Allah will destroy them during the night and will let the mountain fall on them, and He will transform the rest of them into monkeys and pigs and they will remain so till the Day of Resurrection."  Hudda Magazine has done articles on photography and music in past issues.
21. Ask if her if her parents were to die, would her orphaned family  (younger siblings) need to live with you?
22. Do you subscribe to any Islamic publications?
23. What is your understanding about the wife's position in Islam and her responsibilities toward the husband and what is your understanding of how a wife should obey her husband?
The Quran states in Surah An-Nisa 4.34 "The righteous woman are devoutly obedient, and guardian in (the husband's) absence what God would have them guard.  As to those women on whose part ye fear disloyalty and ill-conduct, admonish them (first),(next) tap them (lightly) (but never in the face); but if they return to obedience, seek not against them means (of annoyance): For God is Most High, great (above you all).  Blind following of the husband is not acceptable when it goes against Allah's rules. Aisha and Asma narrated in Sahih Al-Bukari 7.133 & 7.818 respectively "An Ansari woman gave her daughter in marriage and the hair of the latter started falling out.  The Ansar woman came to the Prophet sallallahu alayhe wa sallam and mentioned that to him and said "her (my daughter's) husband suggested that I should let her wear false hair." (because of her hair loss her husband does not like her)  The Prophet sallallahu alayhe wa sallam said, "No, (don't do that) for Allah sends His curses upon such ladies who lengthen their hair artificially." Some scholars have stated that when a women obeys her husband instead of Allah Allah (subhana wa tala) and His Messenger sallallahu alayhe wa sallam she is committing a form of Shirk.
  In an article which appeared in the Contemporary Jurisprudence Research Journal 27th Education 7th year from Saudi Arabia, Oct.Nov. Dec. 1995 they wrote the following concerning a woman's rights to her property, "A husband is not allowed to hold up his wife's property and his hold will be regarded as an extortion and a violence to the property of his wife and this is prohibited unanimously, and if he oversteps her he actually over steps the right allotted by Allah" p.69

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