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1. Are you single or divorced? How many times have you been married?
2. Do you have any children?
3. What is your status in this country if you are not American?  Have you ever been in jail or have had brushes with the law or are you recently out of jail, or on parole? If so, please explain the situation.
4. What are your hobbies?
5. Concerning your line of work, exactly what do you do? If you are not employed how do you take care of yourself?
6. If you don't have citizenship in the U.S., is it your goal to marry for the purpose of obtaining it?
7. Are you a legal citizen in this country? If not would you be willing to wait a year or more before I helped you to apply  for citizenship?
8. Are you a student in one of the schools here? If so what is your major, when will you graduate and what do you intend to do with your degree?
9. Are you fluent in Arabic or any other languages?
10. What type of Muslim do you consider yourself?
11.Do you feel you make a good effort in practicing and living your Islam?
12.Have you ever or do you currently smoke (cigarettes, or other drugs), drink alcoholic beverages or involved with illegal drugs?
13.What are your general short and long term goals in life and how would these goals affect your husband?
14. Have you ever had a boyfriend or sexual experiences (including lesbianism)? If so would you be willing to take a test for AIDS and or test for venereal diseases?
15. If you are divorced, why did the marriage dissolve?
16. Who do you take as your close friends in general (Muslim or Kufar ( kufar include People of the Book)
17. Have you ever considered marrying a non-Muslim, even though it is now allowed in Islam for a Muslim woman to marry and non-Muslim man? If so why?
18. Do you consider yourself a tidy person? Do you clean up after yourself?
             19. Before you were Muslim or activity practicing did you ever attend bars, discos or dance halls or any sort, or participated in any other unacceptable activities? 
             20. Do you like to have frequent visitors?
             21. How do you get your hair cut and or styled? (by women or men)
             22. Are you a member of any organization such as ISNA, ICNA, IANA, Q&SS, MAYA etc.?

            23.Do you have any military obligations? If so, how would this affect our life?
Audio Files About Marriage
Excellent  Social Conduct Talks regarding how to the treat wife kindly by Menk
A Bed of Roses
How to Be an Outstanding Husband & Wife
Fiqh of Love - Marriage in Islam
Crisis of Marriage in America
Love Notes Lecture Family & Marriage |Other Lectures on Marriage