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All praise is due to Allah. We praise Him, seek His help for you and for me and for all the Muslims, I seek His forgiveness and we seek refuge in Him from the evil of our souls and the sins of our deeds.  Whoever Allah guides will not be misled by anyone, and whoever He sends astray will not be guided.  I bear witness that there is no God except Allah, the One, who has no partner; and I bear witness that Muhammad sallallahu alayhe wa sallam is His servant and the seal of all the Prophets.  May the blessings of Allah and His peace be upon His slave and messenger Muhammad and upon his family and his companions and all of his followers until the Day of Judgment, Amen.


This book is NOT written by or with any Islamic Shaykh or person of  scholarly knowledge. This book is merely a collection of questions that I have come across through the years. This book should never be used as a substituted for your Wali (marriage guardian) nor as a substitute for dua (asking Allah to give you a spouse who is honest and spiritually committed to their deen while displaying good character with their family.) This book  in NO way guarantees successful marriage if the questions are asked. It is merely designed so that you will ask the appropriate questions so that you won't be shocked or disappointed later in the marriage. It is also not a substitute for your gut instinct or common scense. If someone answers questions perfectly, but your gut tells you something is amiss, go with your gut.  This book is for gathering information purposes  only and is not a substitute for marriage guardianship and from seeking guidance from scholarly sources. This book is not attempting to make any fatwas.

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Audio Files About Marriage
Excellent  Social Conduct Talks regarding how to the treat wife kindly by Menk
A Bed of Roses  Family & Marriage
How to Be an Outstanding Husband & Wife
Fiqh of Love - Marriage in Islam
Crisis of Marriage in America
Love Notes Lecture | Other Lectures on Marriage